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Trendy new store displays graphic image of a man being murdered

Trendy new store displays graphic image of a man being murdered

There’s a cool new grocery store in downtown St. Louis. Until the new Schnucks Culinaria opened up last month, there hadn’t been a full service grocery in downtown St. Louis for decades. It is an inviting and well-designed store. More than just a store too. It’s becoming a community gathering spot, where one can often hear live music and attend wine tastings. img_9141

Into the middle of the fray comes this: The manager, who by all accounts is a terrific store manager, decided to display a one-foot-tall crucifix with a graphic image of a bloody Jesus high up on the wall behind the service counter. It is can be easily viewed by customers who are in the process of checking out.

This has brought some controversy, as reported by the local newspaper, the St. Louis Post-Dispatch. For those of us who have worked downtown for many years, this new store had instantly become “our” store, no matter who we were. But now it’s not quite “our” store unless we believe in the divinity of the dying Jesus.

As indicated by a Jewish customer:

“It would have been equally startling if it had been a Star of David or an emblem of another religion,” Weinstock said. “It’s grocery shopping, and it should be welcoming to all and exclude none.”

The manager, Tom Collora, is quoted as follows:

Collora says exclusion is not what he had in mind. The crucifix, he said, “is not meant to promote one faith over another. It’s just an opportunity to share a part of myself and my life with people I work hard to serve every day.”

This controversy reminds me why the First Amendment is generally a good idea. Not that the First Amendment applies to a private grocery store (it clearly doesn’t), but exclusion of out-groups usually starts in subtle ways. Not that the manager is trying to exclude customers. That does not appear to be his conscious intention. But the effect of displaying any badges of in-group membership announces: this is a place for people like the people who are displaying the image. It draws a distinction between those who are Catholic and all of those (including many types of Christians) who don’t believe it’s proper to display a graphically depicted murder in an otherwise non-threatening public place. From the viewpoint of many people, the prominently displayed crucifix says: “This is not really and truly a place for people like you, though you may enter here and shop.” In this way, it functions much like graffiti, suggesting group ownership of a location.

Image by Erich Vieth

Though I don’t doubt that he is a competent store manager, I found the manager’s explanation disingenuous. If he were really simply trying to “share” a faith, he might want to open up that big wall for religious icons preferred by his other employees too. Maybe some of the employees are Scientologists, Buddhists and Muslims. Maybe the entire wall should be covered to accommodate all of the major faiths practiced by the customers who all simply want to “share.” But he is also disingenuous in another way: Certainly, the image of a bloody dying Jesus is meant to promote one faith over others.

Here’s another potential source of the disconnect between the manager and some of his customers: Over the years, Mr. Collora has probably become desensitized to the horrors of the

Image:  Public Domain

bloody image that he is displaying. That happens to all Catholics (including me, when I was forced to go to church as a boy). We lose the ability to be repulsed by the torture displayed the churches we regularly attend unless we consciously work hard to see the images of the bloody Jesus anew. Consider this: What would the store manager think if the Assistant Manager, who felt really strongly that the United States shouldn’t torture its prisoners, displayed one of the Abu Ghraib images next to the crucifix? I imagine that Mr. Collora would have a fit. “We can’t display graphic images of torture in our store! What are you thinking, man?”

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A big suburban shopping mall is dying, yet I’m not shedding any tears

A big suburban shopping mall is dying, yet I’m not shedding any tears

Today I took my two daughters to a movie. The theater was located in a large suburban shopping mall in Southwest St. Louis County, “Crestwood Plaza.” I had not been to this mall for several years, and I was shocked at what I saw. Approximately 40% of the stores have been shuttered and the entire place was like a ghost town. A lonely security guard told me that the stores have been rapidly failing over the past two years. That comports with my recollection. Two years ago, this mall was a packed and thriving shopping area located in a solidly middle-class community. Crestwood Plaza is not an isolated story; shopping malls are failing all across America.

[I've posted a gallery of today's images many of these shuttered stores along with this post. If you don't see that gallery, click the title to this post to go to the permalink, where you will see those thumbnails.]

I sometimes get snarkish when someone tells me they’re going to a shopping mall. I sometimes ask the Intrepid shopper to do me a favor and buy something practical for me, “Could you please buy me a hammer.” I usually get the same reaction, a puzzled look accompanied by a response “They don’t sell practical things like hammers at shopping malls.” Now I’m not denying that malls sell clothes or that we need clothes. Most mall clothes are for far more than staying warm or covering up. They are much more often than not, for impressing others.

For that reason, I’m not shedding tears for the shattering of dozens of mall stores at Crestwood Plaza or anywhere else. The failure of most of the stores means that we won’t be buying things we don’t actually need. Because Hallmark no longer sells its commercial greeting cards, we might be “forced” to create and send our own personalized cards and letters to each other. Now that Libby Lu gone, our pre-teen daughters can get back to being children rather than obsessing about their sex appeal. In my mind, many of these store closings are mostly good things, although I am saddened by the thought that so many people have lost their jobs due to these shutdowns. See these terrific videos by Josh Golin of CCFC regarding the dangers of turning our children into rampant consumers.

Another silver lining is that the mall owners have been forced to do something different with their space in order to survive (assuming they do survive). What they’ve done at Crestwood Plaza is to lease out many of the “store” spaces to art galleries, educational facilities, community theaters and other arts and crafts workshops for children and adults. In other words, it appears that the mall owners are opening up their malls for people who want to develop their minds and skill-sets rather than simply their pocketbooks.

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Manger scenes from around the world show that humans create God in their own image and likeness

Manger scenes from around the world show that humans create God in their own image and likeness

People create their Gods in their own image and likeness.  This is not an argument that God does or does not exist.  It’s merely an observation that what people claim to know about God is always a projection.
This thought that God is a projection occurred to me when looking at numerous delightful manger scenes crafted [...]

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Where do you take your ugly daughter so that she can be fixed up?  Club Libby Lu!

Where do you take your ugly daughter so that she can be fixed up? Club Libby Lu!

I’m sure that the people who run the corporation that operates Libby Lu stores would object to my title for this post. Too bad. What else could you say about a store that slaps unnecessary makeup and shallow-minded accessories on little girls so that they can feel like their appearance is acceptable?
I learned [...]

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Please don’t send me any store-bought greeting cards!

Please don’t send me any store-bought greeting cards!

I know that pre-written store-bought greeting cards are not the cause of America’s current downfall, but they are a symptom of America’s cultural, moral and educational decline. Really. I know that many of you are thinking that I’m way off base here, but let me give you a few examples based on [...]

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A brave yet curmudgeonly man visits The American Girl Store.

A brave yet curmudgeonly man visits The American Girl Store.

 My daughter has a doll called Kaya.  I really don’t mind this doll at all, although many dolls aggravate me.  Most dolls are unabashedly materialist.  Kaya genuinely seemed to be an earnest survivor–a native American just trying to get by.  American Girl did a great job with Kaya. She is hardworking (according to the books that [...]