I know that I am wealthy when I consider my lack of misfortune.
I am a wealthy person, but not in the way most people understand “wealthy.” I don’t drive an expensive car (I drive a 9-year old Saturn). I don’t own a vacation house. I don’t expect to retire for many years.
I am wealthy because I am a survivor. I have repeatedly escaped adversity and I’ve repeatedly stumbled into enough lucky situations. These unplanned events add up to an undeniable and compelling form of wealth.
When most people consider how “fortunate” they are, they engage in some form of “accounting.” For starters, they add up their savings and they subtract amounts they owe to others. That gives them a financial base line. There’s more to figuring wealth, of course.
Some people consider their health when they assess their wealth. If their bodies are in tolerable working order, that’s something well worth noting, especially for those over thirty. Among people discussing age, I often assert that after thirty, “age” is mostly about health rather than chronological age. Young adults snicker at this (I used to). But imagine a room full of forty-year olds. Everyone in the room is about forty, but just look how different they are! Some of them look and act like they’re 25 and others are functional 75 year olds, often due to obesity, history of injury or illness, lack of exercise, poor nutrition, lack of sleep or various detrimental addictions. The bottom line is that if you’re body is working even tolerably, that’s a big plus when figuring …