My 19 year old daughter Charlotte recently commented: “Time seems to go by faster now than it did when I was in high school.” Yes, indeed! And it speeds up more and more, especially if you love what you are doing with your life, and if you treasure your family and friends.

This seems to be the perfect time of year to try to step off that ever-accelerating treadmill in order to live in the moment, to appreciate the many things that went extraordinarily well this year but to also appreciate lessons learned where things didn’t go as planned. What better way to kick off this season of contemplation than to spend time with your people and to share stories with each other. That’s what many of us are doing tonight, of course. To me, that is the magic of the season. My family’s tradition is to celebrate Christmas Eve with a feast of tacos and other Mexican food at my house in South St. Louis. My immediate family includes my 87 year old mother, who lives independently, and her five children (I have four wonderful sisters). My mom would proudly add that she has many grandchildren and also some great-grandchildren. But wow, is time ever flying by . . .