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Methods of settling disputes: war or sex?

We all know about war:  male-dominated animal species — from humans to bighorn sheep — settle their disputes with combat.  But bonobos [1] — a matriarchal primate species  — settle their disputes with sex [2].  Of course, humans sometimes do this too — it’s called make-up sex — but bonobos use it for everything.  They use sex the way humans use apologies.

I can’t speak for anyone else, but I think this makes a good case for supporting a change in the human social hierarchy.

Of course, Christian conservatives wouldn’t like it.  A female-dominated society that settles disputes with sex would send evangelicals into paroxysmal fits.

Still, using sex to settle disputes would seem to have many benefits.  It would certainly be a lot cheaper than the military system we have now — just think of all the useful social programs that could be funded instead (or tax cuts, if you’re a Republican).  Plus, the Pentagon would always have plenty of volunteers.

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